Networking is Not What You Think

Hey Fam!

Have you ever felt like “networking” is just a fancy word for using people to get what you want? Like a bit of a shady thing? You're not alone!

Many of us have grown up with the idea that networking is about “buttering up” someone to get ahead. But the truth is, real networking is so much deeper and meaningful than that.

Let’s reframe how we think about it because it’s genuinely one of the most valuable skills you can have for growth.

When you network authentically, you’re not just meeting people; you’re opening yourself up to new jobs, mentorship, and even unexpected collaborations that you might never have found on your own.

Connecting with people from diverse backgrounds and fields? You’ll learn things that stretch your mind and add value to your career and personal life.

Each new connection helps you step out of your comfort zone, builds your social skills, and makes you feel more comfortable in your own skin.

Networking isn’t a shortcut. It’s a real, lifelong skill. It’s about building genuine, meaningful connections that can support and enrich your journey. Those who grow are often those who take the time to connect and learn from others.

Imagine being able to reach out to someone who’s been where you want to go.

Or imagine collaborating on a project that started as a simple “Hello” at a meet-up.

In fact, my first networking encounter was merely a casual unexpected one.

That’s the power of networking—the right way. Real growth happens outside the comfort zone, and networking helps us expand our comfort zones by building connections with real purpose.

Ready to give networking a shot? Here are a few ways to get started:

1. Reach out to a peer or mentor whose work you admire. Drop a simple message or comment, and you’ll be surprised how a small step can open doors.

2. Ask questions, listen to others, and genuinely learn from their experiences.

3. Made a good connection? Follow up, even just with a quick message to show you appreciate the connection.

Networking isn’t manipulation; it’s creating a community of people who genuinely want to see each other succeed.

Take the first step, and watch the magic that comes next!

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Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and stories on how networking has helped you! 💬